Coaching
Healing and Coaching: Two Movements, One Integrated Path
The unfolding of our human experience is cyclical, not linear. That is how we grow: we have moments of turning inward, and moments of moving outward, each influencing and supporting the other. Still, to explain coaching clearly, it helps to be a little analytical and to slice non-linear life into two facets that complement one another.
Healing is the work of completing something from the past so we can fully inhabit the present. It restores the freedom to be ourselves, to stop experiencing the past in the present, and to gently reorient toward the future.
Coaching, as I practice it, lives in that future-facing space. It helps you build the life that becomes possible once inner freedom begins to return. Coaching doesn’t replace healing; it builds upon it. And healing doesn’t stop once coaching begins; the two processes feed and strengthen each other. There is no real separation. Only cycles.
How Coaching Works
Every person has a Current Way of Being, a set of patterns, beliefs, and behaviors that has served them up to now, but may no longer support who they are inevitably transforming into. Alongside this, there is often a longing for a different way of living, relating, working, or creating.
Coaching invites you to explore this longing and transform it into practical, embodied action. We take what you desire and help it become something that can be lived. It is concrete. It is grounded. It is about moving from where you are now to the New Way of Being that can truly meet your longing.
Guided Transformation
Inner Work and Outer Work
Some people come to me in a season of inner work — completing something inside, tending to what needs attention. Others arrive ready to build, create, or take the next step in their outer life.
I support both. And in truth, both are always present. Life is systemic. The inner world and the outer world develop together. Each makes the other possible.
What matters most is simply working with what is right in front of you, moving in small, compassionate increments toward an increasingly more spacious experience of being you.
Please get in touch. I look forward to learning about your very unique journey in life.
Ciro Coelho
Testimonials
“When I started working with Ciro, over one year ago, I was in a very bad shape. I was often paralyzed with depression. Today I have started post-graduate studies and I am growing professionally. I’m taking on new challenges with a level of energy and confidence that weren’t available to me before. I used to be really hard on myself. Now I am kind and loving with myself. Even when the workload is heavy and I’m tired, I feel well, centered. It is as though I’ve become another person, only this is who I truly am.”
Vivian F. – Nutritionist – São Paulo, Brazil
“Ciro is a uniquely gifted and dynamic guide. I have experienced his guidance during very difficult times, and can truly say he is a fountain of clarity and insight. Through working on his own life challenges and pursuing an astonishing range of studies, he has arrived at a way of mentoring that is deeply informed by the most current thinking on healing, transformation, and finding meaning and purpose in life. I can highly recommend anyone seeking this kind of guidance to reach out to Ciro.”
Dr. Reuben Weininger, MD – Psychiatrist – Santa Barbara, California
“Working with Ciro through Internal Family Systems was a transformative experience. Despite having explored various forms of talk therapy, healing practices, and self-help programs/books, IFS with Ciro was a unique journey because it helped me connect to parts of myself that were still holding onto outdated patterns and beliefs. Instead of judging or ignoring them, I learned how to meet these parts with compassion and bring them gently into the present. Ciro’s presence was grounding and intuitive. He guided me to the root of my emotions with care and insight, and I felt very supported during this process. This inner reflection and exploration was exactly what I needed.”
J.A.S. – Autin, Texas
“I used to struggle with severe depression. The work with Ciro pulled me out of hell. My life is very different now.”
Russell Horning – Policy & Political Consultant – Los Angeles, California
“I recently began having sessions with Ciro, and my impression so far is that this work has been very helpful to me. I feel from him a loving, genuine approach that, without forcing what’s not yet ready to be worked on, stands by my side and trusts my process and my timing. I’ve been feeling more and more trust, and therefore I feel confident recommending him to friends and family.”
Madalena Pedroza – Mindfulness Instructor and Translator – Brasília, DF, Brazil
It is my pleasure to recommend Ciro as an Internal Family Systems Practitioner. I was fortunate to become acquainted with him as we completed our formal IFS training together, and even more fortunate since then to receive his guidance through my own personal work with my parts. He is an exceptional human-being who brings a beautiful presence of wisdom, connection and deep compassion to his IFS practice.Angie Wren - Registered Clinical Counsellor - Canberra, Australia
“I have never met anyone like Ciro before. He is the most sensitive person I have ever met. By being himself, he gives me permission to be myself. The depth of his speaking is such that he commands people’s attention, and they want to hear what he has to say about them. I feel that when I speak with him, my batteries are recharged and he puts me back on course.”
Dominick Magnan, – CEO, D. Magnan & Co. Inc - New York, NY
“Ciro, I am grateful for your affection, kindness, presence, and especially for walking by my side, safely facilitating the recognition and acceptance of my parts. I have walked an exciting path and I am glad I did it with you. You are an excellent IFS therapist!”
Ana Alturas – Psychotherapist – Lisbon, Portugal
“I came to Ciro with a seemingly impossible dynamic I was working with. His insights into that dynamic led to a significant shift, and energy that had been locked up for lifetimes was freed. I finally have clarity and resourcefulness in an area that had previously eluded me.”Jennifer Ayres – Ayurveda Practitioner - Santa Barbara, California
“Ciro’s commitment to being present and holding space for another person’s process is unlike anything I have ever encountered. Because of his stance of compassion, kindness and curiosity he creates a safe space in which personal insight and healing can blossom. Self-inquiry can at times be severely uncomfortable and there can be a tendency to turn away or find a way to avoid the discomfort. Ciro has gently, steadily and fearlessly, guided me to stay in my process without judgement of right or wrong. This kind and steady attendance has allowed me to make important changes in my life.”T.H. – Teacher - Ojai, California
“Ciro meets and talks with you as if your life - in turmoil or confusion - is in a perfect state, and our interaction is a normal conversation of love and understanding. The capacity to make it so light and to listen for what’s needed, to draw out the concerns, passions and ideas, are the direct reflection of his commitment to you. Ciro is present, with an unwavering ability to focus on the important parts of your world, while expanding your perspective and demonstrating how to give yourself permission to listen to your whole being.“S. M. – Art Director - North Carolina
“Ciro reminds me of Deepak Chopra and Oprah Winfrey with the big questions he asks.
He teaches people to pause, take time, and deeply see.“Sharyn Church – Nonprofit Executive - Los Angeles
“Ciro has a unique understanding of humanity, and is an amazing mentor and guide. Consistently, he establishes trust and a safe space for honesty. He identifies the angst and with his powerful insight offers a healthier alternative, using clarity to direct positive change. I am feeling more gratitude and compassion for self. The time I spend with Ciro is priceless, I am forever indebted.”Kerry C. - Ojai, California
“When I read the book The Five Love Languages, I thought: how lucky were these couples in the book! I found the same luck in the sessions with Ciro. But, unlike what I imagined, my biggest discoveries were about myself. And then I understood how all my experiences impacted my life as a couple. As with everything you learn, mastery comes with daily practice, but I feel on a lighter path and I can already see the blue horizon.”
Paola Novi – Branding Specialist – Ilhabela, Brazil
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